These days, I often find myself short on time and running late. I've been busy; it seems like everyone wants my help with something these days. And I enjoy being the "go to" girl, but I'm not sure I can be her anymore. I've taken my time getting back into my groove since having Sasha, so I'm surpirsed that it's been such a challenge. The truth is, I am finally coming to understand that there are limitations to what I can do. Okay. That sounds a) cocky and b) totally obvious. Of course there is a limit to what I can do. I am human. I've just been slow to realize it.
I have often caught myself thinking of womanhood in terms of "all or nothing". I say womanhood, because I think all of us - with or without children, single or married, career women or not - have this idea that we are either passing or failing. And our definition of "capability" couldn't be more flawed.
We focus so much on what we cannot do, I thought it would be a good idea if we all thought of things we can do. So, ahem. All who would like to participate in this exercise (lurkers please join us:)), add your link below and leave me a comment. Your post should follow this outline:
I can lead the way.
I can make people laugh.
I can make my home a haven from the world.
I can make music.
I can catch a full cup of juice on its way to the floor.
I can catch a child on its way to the floor.
I can inspire others.
I can listen.
I can be the "best mommy in the whole world" without a huge stage production.
I can bake incredible brownies.
I can multi-task.
I can make my husband smile without saying a word.
I can pacify my children.
I can give hope.
Be as serious or funny as you wish!
02 March 2007
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12 comments:
TRue, true, true!!!
We cannot hug the world with our arms!! It is too much, but we sure can be "the best" in so many things.
Fabiola
I appreciate your positive nature in this, it's something I need to remember. Lately things have seemed so overwhelming.
I can catch a child on its way to the floor, Super Mommy powers!
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:D this is such a beautiufl idea Lei.
Fabulous post. Sorry, lurking and had to comment. Awesome post though.
Fantastic post, one that really hits home! Thanks for brightening my Monday.
I can fall into bed tonight and go straight to sleep. I am that exhausted.
I can say that you are a wonderfully positive woman!
What a great post! I thinks it's so important that we try really hard to concentrate on the things we CAN do!
I can give myself blogging "time-outs" to recharge so I can be a better mom to the kids :) !!
What a fabulous post. I love your positive attitude.
I can make people think that I know what I'm doing when I haven't got a clue.
Beautiful Lei. I should have done this before I quit, lol!
This is a wonderful idea! I love this post.
I decided to do this too! I put it up today!
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